I'm Weak

Recently.
Recently I have been distressed.
Distressed by the lack of concern for poor decisions that my friends make.
I don't claim to be the most wise person I know or even close to it. But it has overwhelmed me at moments how content many are to make poor decisions for themselves. When I made the same choices. But I am not that young anymore. And I learned that it was not to my benefit to be a fool. Why then can people confess their belief in good decisions, condemn others poor decisions, but continue to consistently make potentially devastating choices.
Some are found out, some are not, some are rumored about, and others are openly talked about under the claim of confession but without lasting remorse or change of pace.
I am feeling distraught.
I am waining under the weight of judgment.
It might not be my place, but maybe it's my place.
I want support in growing, but I can't find anyone on my path who is willing to walk with me for a time.
I am growing intolerant.
I am turning bitter towards simple minded foolishness.
Am I simply foolish minded?